Monthly Archives: February 2008

Used and Abused

Ever get the feeling you are being taken advantage of? I do, and I hate it. I really don’t mind being generous. If I think the waitress did a good job, I’ll leave her a 30% tip. If I appreciate … Continue reading

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It’s easier to loosen up…

A participant in one of my workshops once contributed, “It’s easier to loosen up than it is to tighten up.”  He was talking about leadership and how it’s easier to relax your strict style of management than it is to … Continue reading

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Movie Night

I had an opportunity to take my oldest son out to see a movie in Thailand yesterday.  This was our second attempt.  The first left us confused and frustrated.  Even movie-going can take a cultural adjustment. It’s not that there … Continue reading

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Inflation

And you thought gas was expensive where you’re from…. 

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Same Same…but Different

A English phrase you often hear in Thailand to describe two things that are similar is “same-same.”  The two items don’t have to be identical; they just have to share a common trait.  For example, an shirt sized XXL and … Continue reading

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It’s Called “Walking” Street!

So many different people have recommended that we go see “Walking Street” in Chiang Mai that we just had to go this weekend.  It’s a place where local vendors hawk their wares.  We thought we would take a few hours, … Continue reading

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Sleight of Hand

A good magician is an expert at sleight of hand.  He creates his illusions by misdirection, having us look one way while he performs the crucial moves somewhere else.  He makes a large show of what’s unimportant and thereby distracts … Continue reading

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Nam Jai

The word jai in Thai means “heart,” and it is such an important concept to the Thais that the word can be compounded with over one hundred other words.  A few examples: Hen jai (see + heart) is the ability … Continue reading

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Three Circles

In a book I’m reading about different cultures, the authors describe three concentric circles that represent how people within those cultures view the other people around them.  The center of all the circles is the individual.  Around him, in the … Continue reading

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