Epic Battle

My oldest son and I went to see an action movie the other day. In one of the early scenes, a group of half-dressed women get off a bus. It was a sexually provocative scene, and I wondered whether or not it was registering on my fourteen-year-old’s mind.

After the movie, we were doing our regular debriefing of action scenes and comparisons of this movie to others in the genre when my son brought up the bus scene.

“You know, they don’t have to dress women like that.”

“Yeah, I know. Seemed so unnecessary, didn’t it?”

“Yes, and they don’t have to show so much. It’s hard for a kid who’s going through puberty.”

“Did it make you uncomfortable?”

“Yes, I had to have a fight with mind and say to myself, ‘I don’t want to look at that…Yes, I want to look….No, I don’t….’”

“I know, Son. That’s a battle you’re going to have to fight for the rest of your life, I’m afraid.”

“And they really didn’t have to do it in slow motion.”

Can I get an “Amen?”



Filed under accountability, Challenges, christianity, family, funny, Masculinity, men, Mind, parenting, Religion, Sexual purity, sin, Spiritual Growth, spiritual warfare, Spirituality

2 responses to “Epic Battle

  1. Thanks for continuing to teach that guy about what is…not just what is right and what is wrong. We are going to be confronted about what is everyday of our lives…it is all in how we react and deal with it that counts!

  2. Carrie

    That was a good lesson and you got a good laugh!

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